this is just ignorant IMO. So because I have an asian baby mean im not proud to be white? I married an asian man because Im in love with him, and then we had a baby... that didnt even make sense to me. I'm with you .... I didn't understand that comment either. 

I'm with you .... I didn't understand that comment either. I wasn't trying to be snotty or anything, I was just blown away by that statement... maybe she didnt mean it that way, I know reading a statement can be taken wrong, thats just how *I* took it. 

I wasn't trying to be snotty or anything, I was just blown away by that statement... maybe she didnt mean it that way, I know reading a statement can be taken wrong, thats just how *I* took it. ^this^ is what I was sayin since I have mixed children. My son DOES NOT look mixed, unless u see his father, then he is the "white" version of his father. My daughter definitely looks like somethin other then just "white". Just b/c a person has children with a race outside of their own, does NOT mean that person isn't proud of their race and culture.